Why is it that when you go to a family members house you always have to worry about whether or not you’re welcome at the house? I feel this way constantly when I go to my grandmother’s house for family get together’s. It is no secret that this particular side of the family which happens to be my dad’s family hates my mother and continuously talks about her after twenty years. I really wonder what goes through their heads when they invite us over for some kind of family function. I used to not care as to whether or not I went at all, but because I have children and my cousins and I have gotten closer I go. When I am getting ready to go to their house it never fails I have to get so dressed up that I feel as though I am going out with my husband that night. However if I don’t get dressed up then the ugly looks begin. I don’t understand why it is they could show up in pajamas and we have to show up in something as though we are dressed to the nines. I cannot stand the way some families treat you. Its not just my family that does this, my husband’s family is the same way. We always feel out of place when we go anywhere. Were we both so bad that people don’t want us around or do we have more class then they do and they become jealous? Who knows but what I do know is that is not what I call family.
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