I continuously feel out of place at my in laws. It does not matter how much I try to get along I always feel out of place. I don’t know if it is my anxiety that kicks in and I just don’t want to be around anyone or if it’s really so bad and I haven’t been backed up forever by my husband. What could really be the issue? I go over expecting to have a great time and sometimes I do and sometimes things are not so great and I immediately just want to go home. I feel like I am judged constantly by his family and I always feel as though they think he should have had someone else in his life. We have been married for almost seven years and that is personally along time to feel out of place. My sister in law acts as though it disgusts her to even have spoken to me at times and then other times she is fine with me. His aunt will only speak to me if it is about children and even at that they talk very little. When people leave they make sure to hug my husband and my child but do they hug me no not at all they bypass me. How would that make you feel if you had to go through something like that not just once or twice but every single time you go? It happens all the time the same thing and I am not really sure what I have ever done to them except borrow their washing machine to do a couple loads of laundry. Then again there is always a price you have to pay when you get married to the person you love.

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