I continuously feel out of place at my in laws. It does not matter how much I try to get along I always feel out of place. I don’t know if it is my anxiety that kicks in and I just don’t want to be around anyone or if it’s really so bad and I haven’t been backed up forever by my husband. What could really be the issue? I go over expecting to have a great time and sometimes I do and sometimes things are not so great and I immediately just want to go home. I feel like I am judged constantly by his family and I always feel as though they think he should have had someone else in his life. We have been married for almost seven years and that is personally along time to feel out of place. My sister in law acts as though it disgusts her to even have spoken to me at times and then other times she is fine with me. His aunt will only speak to me if it is about children and even at that they talk very little. When people leave they make sure to hug my husband and my child but do they hug me no not at all they bypass me. How would that make you feel if you had to go through something like that not just once or twice but every single time you go? It happens all the time the same thing and I am not really sure what I have ever done to them except borrow their washing machine to do a couple loads of laundry. Then again there is always a price you have to pay when you get married to the person you love.

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Does anyone ever act as though they don’t want you around because they do not like the way your child acts? Why is it that the most annoying people about the situation are your family members? My two year old can be loud and rambunctious at times but I do pride myself on the way she acts in public. I was raised to behave in public whether I always behaved at home. In turn I raised my child the same way. When we get over to a family members house everything is fine they are happy to see her and act as though they haven’t seen her in years. Let’s take last night for example being Thanksgiving the whole family was around. We arrive and again the whole family is excited to see her. Two hours later they are yelling at her for typical two year old things. She was trying to play with an animal and instead of playing with the ball in front of the animal she hit him to get his attention. Oh hell Katie bard the door because here comes big mean sister mad at the fact she thought she was being mean. Really my child has never been mean to an animal since she was very small and learning how to treat an animal. The next thing I know a grown thirty year old woman tells my child that she needs to stay out of her room if she is going to do things like that. Really you want to put your two cents in about raising my child but you’re going to scream at her instead of teaching her that her action was wrong. Where do people get off screaming at my child including family? Infuriation flew all over me as I began to boil I decided to tell my husband it was time to go. Where does he get off not defending our daughter against his own sister? No more visitations is what I think if things are going to continue to happen like this.

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1.)    Depression and Pregnancy is something that happens to many people when they become pregnant every day. What happens when you already have depression and then get pregnant? I had depression when I became pregnant the first time and was on the pill called Paxil. During my pregnancy they removed me from Paxil and put me on the pill Wellbutrin. It wasn’t until the end of my pregnancy that I found out why they took me off of the Paxil. According to the news the Paxil medication caused multiple birth defects including heart problems, under development, and even intestines on the outside instead of inside. Wellbutrin has never helped me with what I needed and I always felt lost couldn’t make it to work because I didn’t want to be there and was constantly at the throat of all of my family. I’m pregnant again and I have had mood swings but that comes with pregnancy. My doctor put me back on my Paxil after my daughter was born and I had been on it up through the time I found out I was pregnant with my second child. This time I told myself that I wasn’t going on anything Wellbutrin didn’t help and Paxil is dangerous. I have been doing quite well with no medication but I really have to think before I speak as to not offend or be blunt to a person.

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A Canadian woman who works for IBM has been on a medical sick leave for a year now, due to her clinical major depression. She hasn’t worked in a year, and is still getting a benefits check from the company’s insurance while on her leave. I didn’t even know you could be on sick leave from a job for a year, unless you were in a coma or something. So, while on her sick leave at home trying to get better, the woman frequents her Facebook account in her spare time. Frequents it by doing random applications and, of course, posting pictures of herself. On vacation. At a bar. Or at her birthday party. And an agent from the insurance company decided that she wanted to check these pictures out. The woman decided that she found evidence that suggested the woman was not depressed, and that they are going to deny her claims for insurance benefit checks from now on. The woman is claiming that her doctor is telling her that she needs to go out and have fun with her friends to try and get over the depression, but the insurance company isn’t buying it. They cancelled her benefits, and now she is working with a lawyer to try to get them back. This is a sensitive subject, and I can see both sides. If she’s depressed, she should be trying to get over it with friends. But, I can understand why the insurance company would feel like they were getting taken advantage of after seeing the pictures of the woman vacationing and partying with the free money she was getting from them. It’s impossible to say either way who is right, personally, so I hope they just get this figured out as best as they can for all involved.

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