People can’t usually drive very well, but when you throw some inclimate weather into the mix most folks driving skills go from terrible to absolute crap. I was driving in the snow the other day and I am careful and attentive, but I also know that my car is all-wheel drive, so I have a leg up on all those two wheel drive cars when it comes to gaining traction. As I drove along the highway I passed plenty of cars plopped in ditches, spinning uncontrollably, and just driving like crap. I am not a driving instructor nor do I have a perfect driving record, but when there is ice or people seem to lose their minds. Why can’t folks realize that bad weather takes more attention as well as confidence in your own abilities? Most people that I see clumped in a ditch or spinning like a top are older and I am guessing that they have been driving for years. So what the hell have they been doing for those years? Obviously not paying much attention to their driving habits, obviously. I am not exactly sure what exactly makes people bad drivers, but it seems that it is contagious because there are plenty of bad drivers out there. If you are afraid of driving when there is bad weather then stay home. The Department of Motor Vehicles handbook advises people not to drive when they are emotional, so remember that fear is an emotion. Driving is taken for granted by too many. Many people see driving as a necessity and a right rather than the privilege it is, so next time you get behind the wheel and there is bad weather, ask yourself if you are really ok to drive.

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Evil and treatment of others (animal and human) is subject to relativity. I think. Don’t get me wrong, I have my morals that I let guide my life and that influence with whom I associate with. But to some people, human sacrifice, for example, is on the good side of the good v. evil scale. To me (and probably you) it’s vulgar and hypocritical to think that in order to save many, a God needs some to die. Others see it differently Cannibalism is repulsive to us, but can be a form of honor to others. I wonder if there is a single practice or way of life that all people on earth would agree is good. In my mind, all we can do is try to understand each other and take bits and pieces of thing we see that we like and build ourselves up into a person that we feel comfortable being. Maybe we shouldn’t try to think of others as right or wrong, but as people we would/ would not feel comfortable being like. I like to think good and evil are human inventions, but there do seem to be good and bad people, so I can’t completely discount it. I’m convinced fear is at the heart of all human problems. I could be wrong, but it seems to me that many things have a fear-root. like greed. If you look closely, a lot of people are greedy because they think it will protect them from the things they fear. Same with lust and conceit. They all seem to be motivated by an underlying fear. So, if we conquer fear, we conquer all the ailments that plague us. It’s probably not that simple, but just a theory. I just had a really weird day so far. Weird days are good. They are thinkin days.

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When my sister was in college, she got a kitten from the pound. Her name is Malley. She is now about 7 years old, and still living with my sister and her husband. My sister has always talked to the cat, so she meows NON STOP. Any time you’re around her she just meows even though she doesn’t need anything. It’s cute to have something follow you around all the time and want attention, but she’s hard to get used to because she’s so vocal. A few years ago, my sister got a little Boxer dog and named her Sadie. Sadie is one of the smallest full grown boxers I have ever seen because she was the runt, but she’s really cute and pretty. She has a fear of men, and we aren’t sure why since they got her as a puppy, but with some men she hides and wont let them touch her. Now, she has them both living in the house. It’s so cute to see how they can interact so well. I can’t imagine trying to get my cats to be comfortable around a big dog, they would hide or attack him. They just live in the same house, and never have fights. I would be scared to have my dog around cats because she would kill the cat, and leave my cats with a dog because they would attack him. So, the fact that they can just leave the pets there together all the time with no supervision is really nice. Someday, when I get pets, I want mine to be able to get along and be friends.

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I had heard on three different occasions that everything was ok, they understood were I was coming from but they hadn’t received anything back that showed they were fake. I had taken a sigh of relief and wasn’t worrying about it until I received the phone call a week later from my bank that they had indeed received a confirmation that the money orders were fake and I was being called into the vice president’s office for confrontation. When I showed up prepared to take control of the situation and handle my responsibilities there sat the local police department. As a person that had never been in trouble I worried about what was going to happen to me. The police officer asked me why I had done something like this when I had never even committed so much as a traffic violation. Trying to explain myself became worse and I continued to cry uncontrollably. They released me because they had no grounds to keep me and three days later the district attorney called me in to talk to me as well. It was at that moment he told me that if convicted and I would be because it was my signature and me at the drive through window that I was looking at a good twenty four years in the state penitentiary. It was at that point I began to pray to god that everything would be ok, that he would just give me a sign that I was not going to jail for good. When I walked out of the DA’s office I ran into the attorney that not only was a DA herself but also helped my husband in a DWI case not long before. She was the answer to my prayers and every day I think god she was walking down the hall. The rest of the proceedings are confidential but not far from a psychiatric evaluation. If I can save anyone’s life with something like this and from someone trying to get money back overseas for the benefit of buying artillery to take out American troops then this is why I send this out. Please be safe this holiday and any other time with predators.

I had recently decided to put my daughter into a modeling competition for cutest baby. My husband through a gasket and was very unhappy about the issue. He wanted our daughter to grow up knowing not only was she beautiful on the outside but she was also beautiful on the inside and didnt need a judge making that clear. I tried to explain to him that we had sent in her picture because she was modeling for a scholarship and he was still infuriated. Really you would rather your child be without a college fund than show off her cute smile and let her win some money for college. Our jobs certainly arnt going to pay for college. I was mad and decided that no matter what he thought I was entering her anyway. So I recieved the letter back that stated she had been chosen to go infront of te group of judges as a contestant and try to take her very first win for money to the college of her dream one day. I found her cutest frilly dress in her closet  and put some gel into her curls so they would stay that way and continued on our journey to the competition that could someday change her dream. I went in a let the judges take a look at her and the poor little girl was scared and she decided to cling to my leg. She didn’t show any kind of personality except fear and they poor baby was booted out because of not showing congeniality! Stupid Judges.

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I continuously feel out of place at my in laws. It does not matter how much I try to get along I always feel out of place. I don’t know if it is my anxiety that kicks in and I just don’t want to be around anyone or if it’s really so bad and I haven’t been backed up forever by my husband. What could really be the issue? I go over expecting to have a great time and sometimes I do and sometimes things are not so great and I immediately just want to go home. I feel like I am judged constantly by his family and I always feel as though they think he should have had someone else in his life. We have been married for almost seven years and that is personally along time to feel out of place. My sister in law acts as though it disgusts her to even have spoken to me at times and then other times she is fine with me. His aunt will only speak to me if it is about children and even at that they talk very little. When people leave they make sure to hug my husband and my child but do they hug me no not at all they bypass me. How would that make you feel if you had to go through something like that not just once or twice but every single time you go? It happens all the time the same thing and I am not really sure what I have ever done to them except borrow their washing machine to do a couple loads of laundry. Then again there is always a price you have to pay when you get married to the person you love.

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Does anyone ever act as though they don’t want you around because they do not like the way your child acts? Why is it that the most annoying people about the situation are your family members? My two year old can be loud and rambunctious at times but I do pride myself on the way she acts in public. I was raised to behave in public whether I always behaved at home. In turn I raised my child the same way. When we get over to a family members house everything is fine they are happy to see her and act as though they haven’t seen her in years. Let’s take last night for example being Thanksgiving the whole family was around. We arrive and again the whole family is excited to see her. Two hours later they are yelling at her for typical two year old things. She was trying to play with an animal and instead of playing with the ball in front of the animal she hit him to get his attention. Oh hell Katie bard the door because here comes big mean sister mad at the fact she thought she was being mean. Really my child has never been mean to an animal since she was very small and learning how to treat an animal. The next thing I know a grown thirty year old woman tells my child that she needs to stay out of her room if she is going to do things like that. Really you want to put your two cents in about raising my child but you’re going to scream at her instead of teaching her that her action was wrong. Where do people get off screaming at my child including family? Infuriation flew all over me as I began to boil I decided to tell my husband it was time to go. Where does he get off not defending our daughter against his own sister? No more visitations is what I think if things are going to continue to happen like this.

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Why is it that when you go to a family members house you always have to worry about whether or not you’re welcome at the house? I feel this way constantly when I go to my grandmother’s house for family get together’s. It is no secret that this particular side of the family which happens to be my dad’s family hates my mother and continuously talks about her after twenty years. I really wonder what goes through their heads when they invite us over for some kind of family function. I used to not care as to whether or not I went at all, but because I have children and my cousins and I have gotten closer I go. When I am getting ready to go to their house it never fails I have to get so dressed up that I feel as though I am going out with my husband that night.  However if I don’t get dressed up then the ugly looks begin. I don’t understand why it is they could show up in pajamas and we have to show up in something as though we are dressed to the nines. I cannot stand the way some families treat you. Its not just my family that does this, my husband’s family is the same way. We always feel out of place when we go anywhere. Were we both so bad that people don’t want us around or do we have more class then they do and they become jealous? Who knows but what I do know is that is not what I call family.

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1.)    So I went to the doctor’s office this morning after the advice of the hospital and to my surprise everything is fine. I went in and sat for about 10 minutes after registration and my doctor’s nurse called me to the back to have my blood pressure done and the new blood test to check and see if there is issues with my pregnancy. After the blood test I went into the room to have my Dr take a look at everything. He had gotten the tests from the hospital the night before and had already looked at the tests when he comes into the room. He told me that there was not a tear any were that he could see from the ultra sounds and that the only thing he could tell could make that assumption was the umbilical cord was floating around, causing a line through the uterus. The news made me feel better but really made me mad in the long run. Why did the hospitals assume there was a tear if they couldn’t tell. I was upset and crying and my doctor could tell that they had really upset me the night before and had made sure to tell me everything was ok. I explained everything that had happened to me the night before and my doctor was infuriated. It was at that moment he explained if I  continued to have issues with the hospital then I was to let him know. He also told me that if there was anything else that I felt was wrong then to call him first. I have such a loving doctor and couldn’t ask for anyone better.

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Like I don’t feel annoyed enough with the situation, MTV is showing a true life called, “I can’t leave my boyfriend”. This topic already makes me man, and then watching these girls on TV going through it just makes me want to talk some sense into them. If a man is not treating you the way you need or want to be treated, then you need to get away from that man and fine one that will. A lot of my friends have been or are currently in this same situation, that they think they can “change the man” into what they want, but come on, it’s not going to happen. If some guy is capable of doing all these mean things to you, why would you want to waste your time on him, anyway? I don’t understand you ladies. Demand respect, and don’t let anyone give you less. People are selfish, and that’s just how it works. So, when you’re in a relationship and your partner learns that they can get away things certain things, they are going to continue to test the boundaries and limits. People want to make themselves happy before anyone else, and if you’re stuck with someone like that, then you are never going to feel needed or care for. If you sit back and let someone treat you any way they want, then you can expect to be treated in the worst ways possible. Love, love, love, I can understand that, and you may be in love, but the person who can do these mean things to you obviously is not. Get away and find someone who will.

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